On the second day, whether a man is willing to go home with a woman depends on his wife’s attitude

2022-06-13 0 By

On the second day of the first lunar month, who is the protagonist?Be clear.On the second day of the first lunar month, married daughters will bring bags of gifts and take their sons-in-law back to their parents’ home for a reunion. This day is also called “Welcome son-in-law Day” or “Gu Ye Day”.The daughters talked, the uncles joked, and the parents prepared delicacies to celebrate the reunion. The whole family drank and drank and enjoyed each other.However, the second day back home, the wife needs to pay attention to matters, don’t wait for her husband’s face discoloration, just know their mistakes, and then want to let him follow his wife back home happy New Year, difficult!Recently, a netizen asked, “How can I get my son-in-law to go home with his daughter?”The other party said that his son-in-law has not visited his house for a long time, as an elder, they have retreated a lot.However, her son-in-law did not want to visit his house again, which made her very upset.Don’t know what to do?In fact, there are many reasons why the son-in-law does not come to visit: First, there is emotional discord between husband and wife, and they are not willing to settle down, accompanied by smiling faces to visit the mother-in-law’s house;Second, the son-in-law’s face was hurt in the mother-in-law’s house, consciously hurt self-esteem, do not want to “ask” boring, big New Year who do not want to let their bad luck;Third, the wife’s “complaint”, attracted the whole family, back home to pay a New Year’s visit into a small “criticism meeting”, the helpless son-in-law certainly can not bear such an offensive.I can bear it once, twice, three times, no more.If you want to get him to visit his mother-in-law’s house again, it will be extremely difficult.The second day, the man is willing to follow the woman back home?It depends on the wife. Don’t believe me.Carrying his man back to his mother-in-law’s house was exactly the same as a woman returning to her husband’s house.It can be described as “butterflies”, as uncomfortable as walking towards the scene of a “trial”.If the mother-in-law is easy to get along with, the family is polite and never critical of the son-in-law, and the son-in-law is very happy with his mother-in-law’s house, he is not afraid to go back to her house.If a man goes to his mother-in-law’s house, his wife is always picky and disparages her husband over and over again, which makes the man lose face and dignity. Even if he does not say it at the time, he will inevitably get revenge after returning home.Let the man worry.”Do unto others what you would not have others do unto you.” When a wife starts talking about her husband’s shortcomings, she wants to know if she can bear it if her husband speaks ill of her in front of her mother-in-law.Men want to hold, boast out of the men will be more intimate.Everyone likes to hear good words, not to mention in front of the in-laws, a man is to want praise, recognition.When a woman wants a man to go home with her, she has to cuddle him, brag about him, flatter him.Respect him as the saying goes, “don’t wash your dirty linen in public.” When a woman returns to her mother’s home, don’t always complain about her husband for not doing housework at home. Don’t say how lazy your husband is.No matter how lazy you are, you should respect him in front of other people, because this is your choice of man, others will accuse your husband at the same time, but also doubt your judgment.As long as you speak out, the man’s face is gone, you can no longer protect the inside.No matter how lazy a man is, he does not want to let his father-in-law and mother-in-law know, nor do he want to let his brother-in-law know.Everyone wants to look good in front of outsiders.Back home, the woman should know how to stick gold on the man’s face, even if the heart is unwilling, but also to maintain his bottom line, give him a face, do not let the family party, become a small “criticism meeting”.When a man goes home with a woman, the way a woman treats her husband will affect the family’s view and respect of the man.A woman who doesn’t respect her man, how can she make her mother’s family respect her?In the same way, if a man does not respect his wife, then how can his in-laws respect a woman?Husband and wife should understand each other, tolerate each other, work together as one, deal with their own affairs at home, don’t lose face and integrity outside.# Family marriage emotion #